If you’re looking to add something exciting to your sex life, why not consider the art of rope play? It can add tons of intimacy and excitement to your sex life today! You can choose to start small with some rope wrist bindings or go full throttle and quarter tie her to the bed. Whatever you choose rope play can be catered to your specific bedroom desires and levels of experience.
Why Rope Play?
Rope play helps dictate much more defined roles in the bedroom. One person is very much in charge while the other is at their complete mercy. It can be a heady sensation to give up all control over yourself and your ability to move. Many people find that this heightens their sexual desire. If you or your lady is unsure about being fully restrained, it might be best to start small with a simple wrist binding and work your way up from there. See if you both like it and would consider going further. It’s the beginning of a much more dominant and submissive style of relating to one another in the bedroom. You and your partner may decide you like it better one way than another between the two of you, or that you like switching the role of power back and forth. As with any adult art involving a submissive role be sure to have safety words in place so that both partners are respected throughout the process.
What You’ll Need
Well, rope to start out with but you don’t want to run to the garage and dig out that tough heavy stuff you use for everything else. It’s best to get a softer specimen of rope or soft ties with which to restrain you or your sexy lady. It helps for certain poses if you have a bed frame you can tie your rope to. If you need to create a similar effect, you can run a rope between your mattress and box spring so that you can tie your partner’s hand or legs to each side of the bed. If you can’t arrange for any of that, you’ll need to get more creative with how to restrain your lady and consider ways you can tie her to herself. Blindfolds can also be used to heighten sensation. You won’t be able to move or see what pleasure is coming your way next.
With your stage set, it’s just a matter of knowing how to tie a knot. Your knot work doesn’t have to be fancy unless you’re trying to show off. A simple double knot is good enough to keep your lady restrained. Make sure the bonds are tight enough she can’t get out, but not so tight circulation is being cut off. Wrap the rope around her wrist a few times before knotting and securing to your bed or her body. If your lady is flexible enough, try binding her wrists to her biceps and her ankles to her thighs.