One of the most well known rules of hooking up is that you’re supposed to go to her place. That way if things get awkward you can bail out without making it even worst. That’s entirely true, but there’s something to be said about bringing a woman home to get it on. With the con of not being able to run away come tons of pros that you just can’t get when you go over to her place.
You Control the Setting
Knowing that you’re going to try and get a woman home gives you the advantage of getting everything ready the way you want it. Clean up your place before hand, set out some random candles, and make sure your bed is made. She’ll love the effort that you put in and won’t even think about the fact that you weren’t sure who was going home with you that night.
Besides just getting the space ready you also get to avoid a potential disaster at her place. The rumor that women are cleaner than men isn’t all true. Sometimes they have messy houses or weird roommates that will make the night less than sexy.
You Don’t Have to Leave
The same disadvantage that people think of for having a woman over is actually a benefit. At the end of the night you’re going to be tired. Besides having amazing, mind-blowing sex you may also have had some booze or been at a club. That crap gets tiring. Whether she sleeps over or not, you get to crash in your very own cozy bed at the end of it all. Plus when you wake up you don’t have to huff it back to your spot or wait for breakfast.
You Get to Be the Dictator
When you’re getting ready to head over to her place for the night you’re totally at her whim. She can take however long to get ready, keep you waiting, freak out in the middle of the night and kick you out, and that’s just a short list. Instead of being her ragdoll, take control of the whole evening. This doesn’t mean that you should put together an itinerary of what positions you’re going to go through for the night, but you should definitely play by your own terms. Since this is a hook up you’re not going to want to have the atmosphere be super romantic. You can choose to hit it and quit it or spend some extra time with this hot lady. You might serve her some more booze, put on a movie, or whatever. The choice is yours.
Another choice you’re going to have to make is whether she’s going to stay the night or not. When you’re at her house you can escape but you might feel obliged to stay with her. Your domain is a whole other story. You have the excuse of maybe having a roommate who doesn’t like overnight company, working early, or even that you’re going to go out again.