There are always those movies with relationships where the women just go crazy for something the guy does. Unfortunately, lots of men take clues from those characters in movies or occasionally, the actors themselves. In real life, though, those qualities are very far from what most women are looking for and any man who models his behavior accordingly is going to find himself ostracized and alone. There are lots of habits and behaviors that women don’t like, but these are probably the top three that seem to get to them the most.
We see this all the time in movies, and women seem to love it until it happens in real life. This is one of the things that most women say annoys them most about a man they have a purely casual relationship with. If you and your lady just have a casual relationship, you’re probably only seeing each other once a week, maybe twice. She doesn’t want you to act like it’s a serious relationship, so there’s no need to get jealous and possessive when other men stare at her. Possessiveness turns a woman off because she feels like she can’t make decisions without angering you and she’ll start to feel suffocated. She’s with you to have a fun, low-key relationship, not stress herself out about what you’re going to think about everything she does.
Women always seem to go crazy for those men that are cold, aloof, and distant. Maybe it’s because they like the challenge or maybe, there’s just something attractive to them about pining after something they can’t have. Women are dramatic. Most men don’t act like that, and for good reason. Act like that with a woman in real life and she’s going to lose interest. Women expect that you’ll be the ones chasing them, not that he’s going to have to chase after you to catch your interest. When she’s hot and you don’t act interested, she’s going to move on to another man who can show her a good time and give her what she wants. Don’t keep your distance if you’re trying to hook up, because it isn’t going to get you anywhere.
You know how all the men in movies are always slinging their arms around their lady’s shoulders and wrapping a hand around her waist to pull her closer? The women always seem like they like it, but in actuality women can’t stand that. If you’re out with a woman, she doesn’t want your hands all over her at every available moment. If anything, it doesn’t just irritate them but it also pushes them away. She isn’t going to want to be seen with you if you can’t keep your hands off her. If you’re out on the dance floor, that’s one thing. If you’re just standing around having a drink, keep your hands to yourself. She wants some breathing room, so give it to her or you’re not going to be giving anything else to her later at all.