Women travel in packs. It’s a proven fact. They go to bars together, go to the bathroom together, and don’t seem to do anything without consulting each other first. While it can get a little frustrating, it works to your advantage if you want a wider selection of women to try and hook up with. Let’s say you’re talking to a beautiful lady at the bar and you’re starting to think your chances of taking her home are pretty high, but then her friend comes back from the bathroom and you realize that you’ve been focusing your efforts all night on the wrong woman. What do you do when her friend is hotter than her? You can either focus your efforts on her friend or stay the course with who you were originally trying to hook up with. Neither option makes you a better or worse person, so don’t worry if anyone hassles you about that.
Going for It
Let’s say you decide to change your mind and focus your efforts on here. It’s easy to do, especially if they’re both talking to you. You just can’t be obvious about it. You don’t want to be the kind of guy who preys on a woman’s insecurities. If you think her friend’s hotter than her, there’s a chance she thinks that too and you don’t want to be seen as the kind of guy who capitalizes on that. Luckily, most women are sympathetic to this and if you slip her your phone number (or better yet, if she slips you hers) you can hook up discreetly the next time you want some fun and you don’t have to deal with hurting either woman’s feelings. Better yet, if you’re lucky and play your cards right, you might just end up going home with both of them. What could be better than that?
Letting It Go
If you’re a nice guy, you might just let both women go. Most men will make that choice in a situation like this to avoid causing any drama between women they barely know, and while it is an admirable choice to make, there’s no reason to make yourself into a martyr and lose out on a hookup when you came out that night with the intent to get laid. If you go with that option and lose out on both women, you’re only hurting yourself. There’s no reason why you can’t get laid that night just like you were planning to do. Get rid of the mentality that it’s settling and you’ll go far. The first woman was hot enough, so if you let her friend go you’re still going to have a hell of a good time with a hot lady, so what’s not to like? Besides, even if you let her friend go the first night, it’s possible she might be there again on another night without her friend, and you can hook up with her then. This is a case where patience is going to pay off for you.