The right profile is going to get you the dates that you want. There’s no reason to be caught on a UK hookup site with a profile that’s inadequate, and fortunately, we know what really works and what really doesn’t.
The right profile brings the ladies to you.
Remember, your profile is like a job application. It’s the first impression that you’re going to make on these ladies, and that’s why it really does need to be good.
The first thing that they’re going to see is your profile picture. It doesn’t matter if you’re on a free hookup site or a discount hookup site–it’s always the same in this case.
You don’t have to be gorgeous. We’re all average looking men, and we get dates just fine. That being said, it still needs to be a good picture, and not a bathroom selfie that’s very unflattering.
Talk about yourself.
There are a ton of men on these sites looking for women. You need to be able to stand out in the crowd, and we understand that isn’t always easy. This is where you and your interests will come in handy.
Your profile should be about you. You need to be confident in order to stand out, but you also can’t be a weird, arrogant asshole. Standing out means happily chatting about your interests.
We recommend that you keep your profile rather PG-13. Getting way too into sexual things is going to come off as lewd and crass, and that really can put the ladies off at first.
Keep it classy.
You can brag about your abilities…in chess, but not in bed. They aren’t going to want to hear about a man that can make them come five times with his tongue in an evening.
While that might sound appealing, that’s still going to put them off. These ladies want a man that mentions his sexual interests, but doesn’t start telling stories about them.
The more you end up talking about how good you are in bed, the more they are going to think you’re lying. Even if you really are amazing in the sack, they are going to want to find that out for themselves.
Just relax, and be yourself.
It’s important that you don’t try to lie a whole lot on your profile. Keep it to the facts, thanks, and you’re going to end up attracting a lot more ladies in general on these sites.
These women want a real man. They don’t want a guy that’s stumbling over his lies all the time, and that’s because they’ve seen it all before. You’ll stand out if you’re open and honest.
This includes with your sexual preferences, kinks, and fetishes, too, of course. These women want to be with a guy who knows what he wants…but also a guy that isn’t going to be weird about it. Talk about what you like, but remember, keep it classy.